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Case Information Statement (CIS) NJ

Preparation of the CIS is very important. The CIS is used by the court to determine support obligations during the divorce process (Pendente Lite) and for the calculation of alimony.

Child Support Guidelines NJ

The child support guidelines are used when you apply for, or amend existing, child support.  It is important to present your case in a manner that is credible to the court, as the guidelines may be changed or ignored by the court only where good cause is shown.

Questions You Should Be Asking:

How do I choose a lawyer?

This decision is critical to how your divorce proceeds.
Be wary of recommendations of lawyers who were “tough” or who got a “great deal” for their clients.

Adversarial lawyers will cost you a fortune and will destroy any ability to negotiate things on your own. Hire a lawyer known for litigation and that is what you will get.

What is collaborative law?

This obviously depends upon the circumstances; However if you and your spouse can keep the negotiations going, hold off.

As soon as you file the legal wheels start turning and it can end up costing you money. Only after you file can you approach the court for these issues.

What is a Strategic Divorce Consultant?

A Strategic Divorce Consultant works with you to build a strategy to get you through your divorce with less conflict. Your consultant will help you insulate your children and manage the process so that it is faster and less costly. We work with you to chart, navigate, and structure the best possible financial and economic outcome in your divorce. As a divorce mediator, I have a unique skill set and the ability to proactively and preemptively set you up for the best possible outcome.

Does a Divorce Consultant Provide Legal Advice?

No. Your Divorce Consultant can help you understand the legal process and assist you in preparing the details of your court documents, (Case Information Statement and the text of your Certifications) but we do not provide legal advice.

Top Ten Transition Steps for Children in a Divorce

Download Suzanne’s FREE Top Ten Transition Steps for Children in a Divorce

Here’s my practical list of ways to MAKE LIFE EASIER FOR YOUR CHILDREN. Switching households can be stressful for your children. Using the techniques below will make the day-to-day needs of your kids flow a bit more smoothly: